SPEAK LIFE

BY WALLACE CALEB BATES

This morning at church, Pastor John spoke about the power of our words and the way we treat people.

He reminded us to be careful with what we say. Our words can either build someone up or tear someone down.

I have always loved Proverbs 18:21, which says, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit."

That verse reminds me that what we say really does matter.

As someone who studies communication, I see how this plays out in real life.

Research shows that kind and loving words can help people feel better, handle stress, and build stronger relationships.

On the other hand, harsh or careless words can cause deep hurt.

It amazes me how often science supports what the Bible teaches. Long before researchers studied communication, Jesus lived it.

Jesus spoke with grace, love, and truth. He showed us how to treat others with care in both word and action.

There are so many people today who are hurting, lonely, and overwhelmed. The way we speak to them, whether face to face, in a message, or even online, can make a big difference. We can choose to speak life.

Let us use our words to love others well, speak truth with kindness, and be careful with how we talk so that, in all things, we reflect the heart of Christ.

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